Reviews
"As a science writer who's written about the psychology of love and affection, I was struck by the clarity and honesty that illuminate this work. Finch provides a clear and unflinching look at the ways that this disorder leaves a person struggling to navigate through the complexities of our "neurotypical" social world. But he tells his story with humor, affection for others, and without self-pity. In his deep desire to be a good husband, a better father, a decent human being who connects with and care for others, Finch tells a universal tale, a fulfilling and even inspiring story of the difference that love - genuinely giving love - can make in our daily lives." --Deborah Blum, author of The Poisoner's Handbook, "David Finch has Asperger Syndrome a disorder that, in some ways, means 'acting like a guy.' His often-hilarious efforts to understand and cope with his condition will resonate with every guy whose wife has ever asked him, 'What the hell were you THINKING?'" --Dave Barry, author of I'll Mature When I'm Dead: Dave Barry's Amazing Tales of Adulthood, "In this funny, endearing, lesson-packed memoir, Finch shows what a couple can accomplish with acceptance, forbearance, determination and love." -- More Magazine, "In this funny, endearing, lesson-packed memoir, Finch shows what a couple can accomplish with acceptance, forbearance, determination and love." - More Magazine, "In relating his story, Finch is compellingly honest, a trait that works well with his self-deprecating humor. [His] ability to put his experiences on paper will no doubt help more people-and families-understand [Asperger's disorder]. " --Publishers Weekly, "As a science writer who's written about the psychology of love and affection, I was struck by the clarity and honesty that illuminate this work. Finch provides a clear and unflinching look at the ways that this disorder leaves a person struggling to navigate through the complexities of our "neurotypical" social world. But he tells his story with humor, affection for others, and without self-pity. In his deep desire to be a good husband, a better father, a decent human being who connects with and care for others, Finch tells a universal tale, a fulfilling and even inspiring story of the difference that love - genuinely giving love - can make in our daily lives." --Deborah Blum, author of The Poisoner's Handbook, "What makes the book compelling is how funny Mr. Finch is about himself. He's great company." --The New York Times, "A remarkable love story and a fascinating account of how two people saved a marriage." --Columbus Dispatch, "Hilarious. Gives some of the finest explications of Asperger's out there… a primer of sorts for all of us on how to be better partners." --People Magazine, 4-star review, "I loved The Journal of Best Practices by fellow Aspergian David Finch. This book perfectly captures the essence of succeeding at married life from the perspective of an Aspergian male. If you're in an AS-NT relationship-or any relationship--you absolutely must read this book! It's an upbeat and refreshing change." John Elder Robison, author of Look Me In the Eye, "Extremely amusing and compelling…This poignant memoir is a great read for those with Asperger Syndrome and the neurotypical alike." --Shelf Awareness, "In relating his story, Finch is compellingly honest, a trait that works well with his self-deprecating humor. [His] ability to put his experiences on paper will no doubt help more people--and families--understand [Asperger's disorder]. " --Publishers Weekly, "As a science writer who's written about the psychology of love and affection, I was struck by the clarity and honesty that illuminate this work. Finch provides a clear and unflinching look at the ways that this disorder leaves a person struggling to navigate through the complexities of our "neurotypical" social world. But he tells his story with humor, affection for others, and without self-pity. In his deep desire to be a good husband, a better father, a decent human being who connects with and care for others, Finch tells a universal tale, a fulfilling and even inspiring story of the difference that love genuinely giving love - can make in our daily lives." --Deborah Blum, author of The Poisoner's Handbook